Setting the size of bpf maps in Kmesh

[LiZhenCheng9527]

What would you like to be added:
In Kmesh, we declare a number of bpf maps and set their size. However, the previous settings were very confusing and the sizes did not reasonably.

kmesh/bpf/kmesh/include/config.h

Lines 40 to 48 in 80e0261

	#define MAP_SIZE_OF_PER_LISTENER 64
	#define MAP_SIZE_OF_PER_FILTER_CHAIN 4
	#define MAP_SIZE_OF_PER_FILTER 4
	#define MAP_SIZE_OF_PER_VIRTUAL_HOST 16
	#define MAP_SIZE_OF_PER_ROUTE 8
	#define MAP_SIZE_OF_PER_CLUSTER 32
	#define MAP_SIZE_OF_PER_ENDPOINT 64
	#define MAP_SIZE_OF_MANAGER 8192

We need to discuss the size of the bpf maps according to the actual usage story. Make the size setting more reasonable
Why is this needed:

[LiZhenCheng9527]

We can discuss this at the next community meeting

[hzxuzhonghu]

And for worklaod mode, most are two small, while MAP_SIZE_OF_AUTH maybe too big

#define MAP_SIZE_OF_FRONTEND 100
#define MAP_SIZE_OF_SERVICE  100
#define MAP_SIZE_OF_ENDPOINT 1000
#define MAP_SIZE_OF_BACKEND  500
#define MAP_SIZE_OF_AUTH     8192
#define MAP_SIZE_OF_MANAGER  8192
#define MAP_SIZE_OF_DSTINFO  8192

[LiZhenCheng9527]

total service mesh：
services 5000
workloads100000